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问题补充说明：用英语写一篇《当幸福来敲门》的观后感
"ThefirsttimeIseemyfath哥建夫房纸杂稳想两历雨erinmy28yearsold,whenIdecided,ifIhavechildren,mychildrenmustknowwhohisfather"
AlthoughIhavenotyet28yearsold,ofcourse,impossiblefor28-year-oldwhenthefirsttimeIsawmyfather,butwatchingfilm,listeningtoJadenSmithCutech根冲ildish,whensuddenlythereisaverywantedachild,andthentakegoodcareofhisimpulses.WhenJadenSmi沙袁女要元运凯附燃th,togetherwiththefatherslepttoiletsisnotcomplaining,andevenputforwardagaintothis"hole"sleeptime;whenhewasstareatthegrocerystorewheresnack岩段命s,whenthefatheraskedwhenhehimselfmustnotbetheandothercircumstancessuchasthese,Iwouldhavebeenrepeatingawordinmyheart,Ireallysensibleah,Ireallysensibleah.
Thewifetoleave,isachoice,youcanblameasalebecausethehusb皇坐歌效味anddidnotsellanything,butforfourweeksath散静光素族风督实omeeveryday,awomanconnectedtothetwoclassesMody?Herdepartur支富硫含衡eisdefinitelynot航言室似环杂觉钢长aspiretov轮anitysomaterial器批效青宽秋企套istic,andshehastobearalotofwome语指占着升便井国半整负nmaynotb需值白社太eabletoaffordthings.Chokingonthephonebefore,morealifeofdespair.Fromthefi常lmattheendofs基肥peculation,infact,she胡工事排staysafewmonthsagainaslongasyouc查金派往走艺告始久an,butitisfairtosurmisefromtheresult造文逐汉端吃钟测督有活s,reallife,howmanypeople'slifeisawrittenscriptofahappyending?Vicissitudesoflifearederivedfromtheunknown.Lifeisoftenmuchmorecomplexthanthefilm,
ChrisGardner'ssuccessjustshowsthatmorepeopleinthisworldisafailure,becausemostpeoplefailbeforetheybringoutthesuccessofsomeminorityofpeoplesoprecious,sodazzling.Ifyouaresuccessfulpeopleallovertheworld,successhasgivenusthewordwouldnotbetouchedbysomany.Icannowfinallyunderstandthatthereisnowaythosewhogoontomarriage,isnotnecessarilyaheinouswhichsideandwhichsideshouldhavebeencastaside,andstoodtogetherinlifeornottowalk,twopeoplehavetherighttochooseatanytime.Ofcourse,thewifehasbeenfamilyandherhusbandasthecenter,iscertainlymostofthemenofthe
希望.ButIpersonallythinkthat,nomatterhowdifficultlife,forourchildren,shouldcarryon,justas28-year-olddidnotseeafatherChrisGardner'sinsistence,asthemothermustalsoletthechildknowwhoheis,whetheritislifeInthehutorthepalace,acompletefamilyforthechildisanunparalleledwealth.
Thefilmiscertainlyinspirationalclassic,howmanytimesabasketcase,howmanytimeshomeless,andultimatelythoroughlytransform.Nowheretogoandsleepinthetoiletcryingshamesuffering,thechurchdoorinordertofightarelieftobedwiththehomelessgaffebickeringoffthenightatthepolicestationthenextdayflewtohisheadisthefirstdayoftheinterviewalsoworedecoratedstainedpaint,......anumberofbitterandrelentlessdetailsoflife,wasadmittedinthefinalmomentwasNabuWenbookintoatremblinghand,howmanypeopledonotatthismoment,togetherwithChrisGardnersilentlyweeping?ButIdonotknowhowmanypeopleseethefilmwillbemorefirmlytheirowndreams,
Wouldhaveconfidenceinsalesandstocksinthisindustry.Allthedifficulties,fortheultimateresultofthatsuccess,Ihavetorepeattheabovesentenceoncesaid,howmanypeoplewillultimatelysucceedit?Thecapitalmarketmustbetomakemostpeople'smoneyflowtoasmallnumberofpeople,failurethanthesuccessofmanypeopleisabsolute."Theroadtosuccesseverywherefallenplacesandfallenpeople"adeterminationtoworkforeachpersonshouldhaveaheartreadytobecomeafriendthatowedmoneyto14peopletobemorelikelytoRepudiationmorethanawell-knownU.S.investmentexpertsblacksweremuchmorelikelyChrisGardner
.Throughthickandthintofindawillingwomanisnotdifficult,butencounteredawillingnesstohaveawomanwhocarriestheweightoflifeisnoteasy,ifincaseyouaresuccessful,youcanthankher,youmayfindXiaomisecondwife,butifyoufailed,perhapsshemaynotbeabletoseeyoulivetothefinalfailureofthatday.
"Thefiguremustbesensitive,goodatcommunication,nothingmore"
Alotoftoughjobbeingafewwordssummedup,lifeisnotso,thefilmwasfinallyabletoletmeknowthatablueprintforthemorebeautiful,thesurfaceofthemoregloriouscareer,themoreeasyforthosekeenandambitious,butinfact,ittakestobesuccessfulTheeffort,thanthosewhoseeminglybehavemuchmoreprofessional.Proveonceagainthephrase"nolovefornoreason,"andwantedtoriches,itisimpossiblefornoreason.
Finally,Ihavetoadmit,WillSmith'sperformancedoeshavetouchedpeople'sheartsplace.Allowmealsotothosewhoworkedhardfortheirideals,butitdoesnotobtainornoaccesstotheirownwell-beingofthepeopletopaytributetotheideal.Becausenomatterhowlongyouhaveworkedhardforeverydropofsweatarereal.Theloserstendtobeasuccessfulsteppingstone,thoughveryfewplacesinthesuccess,butwhowillforeverbeasteppingstonetodo?Letusinsistonthesame,likeChrisGardner!
“我第一次见我父亲是在我28岁那年，那时候我就下定决心，如果我有孩子，我的孩子一定要知道他父亲是谁”
虽然我还没有二十八岁，当然也不可能在28岁的时候第一次见我的父亲，但是看着这部影片，听着JadenSmith稚嫩的童声，忽然有一种很想要一个小孩，然后好好照顾他的冲动。当JadenSmith跟老爸一起睡厕所并不埋怨，甚至还提出过可以再次去这个“洞”里睡时；当他在杂货铺里目不转睛地盯着零食，当老爸问的时候说自己不要时等诸如此类的情节，我就会在心里不停重复一句话，真懂事啊，真懂事啊。
做妻子的离开，是一种选择，你能指责一个因为做销售的老公卖不出东西，而为了家四个星期每天都连上两班的女人么？她的离开绝对不是贪慕虚荣那么功利，她已经在承受很多女人未必能承受的事情了。在电话前的哽咽，更多的是一种对生活的绝望。从影片的结尾推测，其实她只要再撑几个月就可以了，但是这是从结果来推测，现实生活，有多少人的人生是一本写好大团圆结局的剧本？人生的酸甜苦辣都来源于未知。生活往往比电影复杂得多，ChrisGardner的成功只说明了这个世界有更多的人是失败的，因为大多数人的失败，才衬托出某些少数人的成功那么弥足珍贵，那么耀眼。如果满世界都是成功的人，成功两个字给与我们的感动就不会那么多。我现在终于能够理解，那些没有办法进行下去的婚姻，并不一定是哪一方十恶不赦，哪一方要遭到唾弃，风雨同舟的人生要不要一起走过，两个人随时都有选择权。当然，做妻子的一直以家庭和丈夫为中心，肯定是大多数男人们的希望。不过我个人以为，不管生活多么艰难，为了孩子，都应该坚持下去的，就如同28岁才见到父亲的ChrisGardner的坚持一样，做母亲的也一定要让孩子知道自己是谁，不论是生活在草棚还是宫殿，一个完整的家庭对于孩子来说是无可比拟的财富。
这部电影当然是励志经典，多少次山穷水尽，多少次无家可归，最终修成正果。无处可去，睡在厕所里羞愧痛苦的哭泣，教堂门口为了争一个救济床位与流浪汉失态地争吵、在警局关了一夜第二天飞奔去面试还顶着头一天满头装修沾到的油漆、……众多辛酸而坚持不懈的生活细节，在最终被录取的那一刻，化作颤抖得拿不稳本子的手，有多少人不会在这一刻与ChrisGardner一起无声地哭泣？可是我不知道有多少人看到影片会更坚定自己的梦想，会对销售和股票这个行业充满信心。所有的困难，为的是最终那个成功的结果，我要再说上文曾经说过的那句话，有多少人最终会走向成功的呢？资本市场必然是要让大多数人的钱流向少部分人，失败的人比成功的人多是绝对的。“在通往成功的路上，到处都是倒下的地方和倒下的人”每一个决心努力的人都应该有心里准备，变成那个欠朋友14块钱都要赖账的人的可能性要比成为美国著名黑人投资专家ChrisGardner的可能性大得多。找一个愿意同甘共苦的女人不难，而遇到一个愿意一直背负生活重压的女人就很不容易，如果万一你成功了，你可以感激她，你也可能去找小蜜二奶，而你如果失败了，也许她未必能活到最终看到你失败的那一天。
“对数字要敏感，善于交流，仅此而已”
很多艰难职业被人几句话概括，生活不仅仅如此，这部电影让我终于能了解到那些蓝图越美好、表面越风光的职业，越容易让好高骛远者趋之若鹜，而实际上，要成功所花费的心力，比那些貌似循规蹈矩的职业要多得多。再次印证那句话“没有无缘无故的爱”，想要暴富，也不可能无缘无故。
最后，我要承认，WillSmith的表演，确实有感动人心的地方。并请允许我，向那些曾努力为自己的理想而奋斗，却并没有获得或暂时没有获得自己理想中幸福的人们致敬。因为无论你努力了多久，每一滴汗水都是真实的。而失败者往往会成为成功者的踏脚石，虽然成功的名额少之又少，可是谁愿意永远做踏脚石呢？就让我们像ChrisGardner一样坚持!
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